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A Rabbi , A Minister, and a Priest...

4/11/2013

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Picture
....walk into a bar. The bartender looks up and says, "What is this, a joke or something?"
Anyone who knows me knows that I have been blessed with the gift of a sense of humor. I am not talking about joke telling, because I can hardly remember any of the jokes I've been told. I am talking about the ability to elicit laughter from a situation. Yes, sometimes I get an eye roll from my 17 year old daughter Kaziah, but that's her job, and I usually deserve it.  But more often she laughs, which was one of the things my wife Renée blessed her with at her baby naming, "May you always laugh at your father's jokes."

There is something deeply instrinsic to the human spirit about being joyous, as we learn from many  Hasidic teachings. The Tanach and the Talmud are replete with humor, as I was reminded during a study session with my chevruta yesterday morning. In BT Taanit 22a is a story of Rabbi Baruqa, who one day happened upon the prophet Elijah in the marketplace. He asks the prophet, "Is there anyone among the people here in the marketplace who have a place in the World to Come?" Elijah answered that 'there is none." Later two men entered the marketplace and Elijah pointed them out, saying, "Those two will have a share in the World To Come". "Rabbi Bauqa asked the two men their occupations. "We are jesters" they replied, "when we see someone who is sad we cheer him up. When we see two people quarreling we try to make peace between them."
The Baal Shem Tov teaches that the job of these two merry-makers is to remind us of our true nature, to reactivate the passive aspect of the Divine that are lying latent in our deeds and words.
The "passive aspect of the Divine"? Why joy of course! What an occupation! What a calling! 
Imagine a want ad: Jester needed, to use your sense of humor to unite with others; could be a person who is in a state of pain and despondency. Ability to unite a person to His blessedness required.
 
In his book "Pillar of Prayer",  a recent translation of the teachings of the Baal Shem Tov on prayer,  Menachem Kallus  writes "using humor for a higher purpose and imbuing all of one's words with intentional significance" is, according to the Besht, an important priniciple.

What is this, a joke or something? It sure is - an important tool of Rebbe-craft.

7 Comments
ChaimLavan
4/11/2013 12:47:23 am

Mark, as a Rabbi you should insure your daughters eye rolls are licit. You caught the first illicit but not the second.

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R' Mark link
4/11/2013 12:51:31 am

Thanks Chaim, I think I'll lay off that word for the rest of the day, or else I'll need to start rolling eyes at myself! Chodesh tov.

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Claude Brachfeld
4/11/2013 04:53:37 am

Laughter is an exquisite blend of the physical, emotional and spiritual self. A little like singing, no?

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Rabbi Leila Gal Berner
4/11/2013 07:17:37 am

Rabbi Mark: Two things in response: Reinhold Niebuhr once wrote: "Laughter is a kind of no man's land between faith and despair." Oh. how true, how true! The Hassidim knew that!
Second, the little old lady goes to India to see the guru at the top of the mountain and is told that she must schlep 3 days to the top and then is permitted to say only 3 words to the great spiritual leader. She agrees. She arrives at the mountaintop, gazes lovingly into the guru's eyes and says, SHELDON, COME HOME! A humorous and wise lesson about searching out our spirituality in our own ethnic/cultural/and religious 'suitcase' FIRST and finding it's treasures before we schlep to the ends of the earth. May we all find what we need 'at home!' and perhaps explore a little too!

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R' Mark link
4/12/2013 05:42:34 am

That's so funny R' Leila, that's two times in the two days I hread someone tell joke, The other was Alan Morinis. As Dorothy teaches in the Wizard of Oz, "there's no place like home" (isn't that right Toto?)

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Rachel
4/14/2013 04:21:02 am

My Bubie used to say "I make myself laugh" and laughing at oneself and our own follies is also a fun way to find joy in life. It doesn't hurt that my husband also makes me laugh quite often!!

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R' Mark link
4/15/2013 01:30:08 am

My 30 year old son Aaron must know your Bubie, because he always says, "I crack myself up" - Birds of a feather, eh?

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